Graduating to new positions: Once you have fully received the penis, the last hurdle is to add new positions into the mix, like doggy-style. Make sure you have mastered receiving to minimize any injury and maximize pleasure.
Start with you receiving on top and gaining control of your muscles before moving around to new positons. Injury happens to the best of us: Proper techniques are obviously a must, but even brand-new cars can break down.
The most common issues related to anal sex trauma are tears, also known as anal fissures. Most anal fissures will heal themselves with proper care, but fissures that become chronic will require surgical intervention. Be honest with your body: Small, petite frames and pelvises just may not be able to accept those of the more well-endowed variety. Be realistic with your goals, and realize that you may need work up to this over several months.
Use it or lose it: The key to continued ease of bottoming is to be consistent in using the above dilation methods, even throughout sexual dry spells. Keep at it so the next experience is a pleasurable one. Engage a specialist: The process to becoming a pro at bottoming can be daunting, but it is totally achievable if you follow the above process. Your heart speeds up.
If you're not an overly-adventurous sort, keep it simple and just move the action to another part of the house. No problem. I often tell patients that great bottoms have been doing it for quite some time, with many first experiencing it in their youth. Hungry for more? The older man Daddy. Make sure you have mastered receiving to minimize any injury and maximize pleasure. The key is to remember there are three sets of muscles that need to relax for a successful entry.
You feel the rush of exploring something a little kinkier, a little more intense. We all need to learn what the fuss is about, and why two heads pun intended are better than one. Summer camp is literally the most homoerotic space to have ever existed.
Everything feels so good. That drunk sex that is absolutely awful. Some of us more than we care to admit. You feel gross. Literally, the worst. You might be asking why I think every gay men should experience this.
Fair question! I think it's important for us to have a couple mediocre sexual experiences, so we can appreciate the good ones. It's another rite of passage that will inevitably happen.
For all others, enjoy the slideshow. And feel free to leave your own suggestions for sex and dating topics in the comments.
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